How to Support a Partner Struggling with Depression
Medically Reviewed by Mark Hrymoc, M.D., Chief Medical Officer, double-board certified in General & Addiction Psychiatry When someone you love is struggling with depression, it can be difficult to know how to help. Feelings of helplessness, frustration, and worry are common among partners. Supporting a loved one through depression requires empathy, communication, and patience—along with awareness of your own emotional limits. Understanding Depression Depression is a complex mood disorder that affects both emotional and physical health. Symptoms may include sadness, fatigue, loss of interest, irritability, and difficulty concentrating. Recognizing that depression is a medical condition, not a personal weakness, helps remove blame and fosters compassion. How to Communicate Supportively Open communication is essential. Use statements like “I’m here for you” instead of trying to fix the problem. Listening without judgment encourages trust and allows your partner to express emotions freely. Avoid minimizing their experiences or offering overly simple solutions. Encouraging …