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Couples Therapy: 10 Things You Should Know

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Medically Reviewed by Mark Hrymoc, M.D., Chief Medical Officer, double-board certified in General & Addiction Psychiatry When a relationship encounters challenges, many couples seek therapy to repair and enhance their connection. Couples therapy, or relationship counseling, offers a structured environment to address issues with the guidance of a trained therapist. The following points explain more about what to expect from couples therapy and how to make the most of it: 1. Understanding Couples Therapy Couples therapy is designed to help partners address conflicts, improve communication, and deepen emotional connections. According to a 2021 meta-analysis published in Psychological Bulletin, couples therapy is effective in improving relationship satisfaction and reducing symptoms of distress (Cuijpers et al., 2021). The therapist’s role is to facilitate dialogue, provide feedback, and offer strategies to tackle relationship problems. 2. The Initial Assessment Therapy typically begins with an initial assessment, where the therapist gains insight into your relationship’s …

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Navigating Family Breakups: How Separation and Divorce Impact Children and the Path to Resilience

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Medically Reviewed by Mark Hrymoc, M.D., Chief Medical Officer, double-board certified in General & Addiction Psychiatry Family separations, including divorce or uncoupling, can be tumultuous and bring significant changes for every member of the family, particularly children. While the immediate effects can be challenging, there is growing evidence that children can not only cope but thrive with the right support. This blog post delves into how family breakups impact children, the benefits of various forms of professional support, and recent research that highlights hopeful outcomes and strategies for fostering resilience. The Impact of Separation and Divorce on Children Children’s experiences during family separations can vary: Emotional and Psychological Effects: Children might experience a spectrum of emotions such as sadness, anger, confusion, or even relief. Their understanding of the situation varies by age, and they might struggle with feelings of abandonment or guilt. Behavioral Adjustments: Emotional strain often leads to behavioral …

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About the 4 Attachment Styles

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By Ashley Barnes, M.S. Attachment As human beings, we are highly social creatures who depend on connection with others to survive. Attachment theory posits that our earlier connections with caregivers shape and influence how we move through the world and romantic relationships. The development of one’s attachment style is understood to be influenced by the following factors: Inconsistency/unpredictability or consistency/predictability in your early environment Temperament Relational trauma Your primary caregiver’s capacity to attune to your needs when you were a baby/child John Bowlby, founder of attachment theory, conducted extensive research on attachment. Psychological researchers continued to expand on his theory, including Mary Ainsworth; Ainsworth created the “Strange Situation” study in the 1970s where toddlers between the ages of 12 to 18 months reacted to a situation in which they were briefly left alone and then reunited with their mother.  Based on the childrens’ responses, Ainsworth concluded that there were three …

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How Does Substance Abuse Affect Families?

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How does substance abuse affect families? The answer is complex, but in short, it has the potential to impact familial relationships in several ways. In fact, one myth about substance abuse is that it only affects the person misusing drugs or alcohol. Ask any family with a loved one struggling with addiction, and they will tell you how they have all been affected. Current reports suggest over 20 million American adults have a diagnosable substance use disorder. That means around 20 million families are impacted by a loved one’s addiction. The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMSHA) reports one in eight children lives with at least one parent with a substance use disorder. How Does Substance Abuse Affect Families? Whether you are a child, sibling, parent, or extended family member of a person with a substance use disorder, you can be impacted physiologically and psychologically. Changes Family Roles Each family …

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4 Ways to Heal from Heartbreak

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By Ashley Barnes Perhaps one of the most impactful and profound experiences of young adulthood is our first heartbreak or break up. The pain is certainly emotional in nature but can also show up somatically, hence people describing break ups as resulting in a “broken heart.” The pain is undeniable and valid, especially when considering the time, energy, and meaning that is placed on our first serious relationships. For many, the first serious heartbreak occurs as a result of college. Relationships may end due to partners being far away from each other at different schools. Some couples may strive to make long-distance relationships work despite this, but find that it is too difficult and ultimately part. Others may go to the same school but end up breaking up. We may meet a partner at school, date for a while, and then things may not work out; after breaking up, we …

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