4 Ways to Heal from Heartbreak

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By Ashley Barnes Perhaps one of the most impactful and profound experiences of young adulthood is our first heartbreak or break up. The pain is certainly emotional in nature but can also show up somatically, hence people describing break ups as resulting in a “broken heart.” The pain is undeniable and valid, especially when considering the time, energy, and meaning that is placed on our first serious relationships. For many, the first serious heartbreak occurs as a result of college. Relationships may end due to partners being far away from each other at different schools. Some couples may strive to make long-distance relationships work despite this, but find that it is too difficult and ultimately part. Others may go to the same school but end up breaking up. We may meet a partner at school, date for a while, and then things may not work out; after breaking up, we …

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College Tips: Speaking From Experience

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By Ashley Barnes Adjusting. Adjusting to any new environment can be daunting and intimidating. You may not know exactly what to expect out of your new college environment. You won’t be surrounded by the same group of friends from back home, you likely won’t be eating the same food, and definitely won’t be sleeping in the same bed. You may feel alone in this drastically different experience filled with change, novelty, and it may feel overwhelming! The reality is, everyone around you will be going through similar adjustments. Acknowledging the universality of this change may help readers better understand that you are not alone in this seemingly lonely experience. In fact, you will be presented with many opportunities to form valuable and lasting connections. Finding a routine. Part of adjusting is finding a new sense of stability. Finding a new sense of stability can be achieved through the creation of …

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Addressing Change

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By Ashley Barnes Change. One doesn’t have to be diagnosed with adjustment disorder (which is an actual diagnosis) to have a hard time with change. The reality is that we will be faced with many changes throughout the course of our lives. Your favorite restaurant in your hometown may close its doors for the last time. You may leave the expectancy, sureness, and comfort of your home for a dorm room. You may adjust to a new job, or change careers entirely. You may be navigating the drastic change that comes with the loss of a relationship or the death of a loved one.  We so often grow comfortable and rooted in certain aspects of our lives that when change comes about, we feel uprooted. Change can be surprising or it can be anxiously anticipated. It could evoke fear and excitement simultaneously. Whatever comes up for you, I want to …

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The Link Between Sleep Deprivation and Emotional Regulation

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Medically Reviewed by Mark Hrymoc, M.D., Chief Medical Officer, double-board certified in General & Addiction Psychiatry Sleep plays a foundational role in mental health, yet modern life often deprioritizes it. Chronic sleep deprivation disrupts emotional regulation, impairs judgment, and increases vulnerability to anxiety and depression. Although most adults need seven to nine hours of quality sleep, surveys suggest that nearly one in three Americans consistently fall short. Understanding how lack of sleep affects the brain and learning strategies to improve rest can have profound benefits for emotional well-being. How Sleep Impacts Emotional Health Sleep is when the brain restores its balance and consolidates emotional experiences. During deep sleep and REM cycles, neural networks reorganize, allowing individuals to process stress, regulate mood, and integrate memories. When sleep is insufficient, this system falters. Neuroimaging studies show that sleep deprivation causes the amygdala—the brain’s center for processing emotions—to become up to 60% more …

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Managing Mental Health During the Holidays

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Medically Reviewed by Mark Hrymoc, M.D., Chief Medical Officer, double-board certified in General & Addiction Psychiatry The holiday season is often portrayed as a time of joy, connection, and celebration, but for many people, it can also bring stress, loneliness, and emotional exhaustion. Expectations around family, finances, and social gatherings may heighten anxiety or sadness, and the contrast between festive surroundings and personal struggles can deepen feelings of isolation. Prioritizing mental health during the holidays is essential to maintain balance, manage stress, and create space for genuine connection and rest. Acknowledge Your Feelings It’s important to remember that it is okay to feel unhappy, anxious, or overwhelmed during the holidays. Suppressing difficult emotions can make them stronger over time. Instead, acknowledge what you are feeling without judgment. A 2020 study published in Emotion found that emotional acceptance—allowing yourself to experience feelings as they arise—reduces long-term distress and supports emotional regulation. …

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